{"id":2647,"date":"2018-04-11T02:06:11","date_gmt":"2018-04-11T02:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/?p=2647"},"modified":"2026-02-10T19:31:53","modified_gmt":"2026-02-10T19:31:53","slug":"7-tips-to-encourage-speech-and-language-in-a-toddler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/index.php\/2018\/04\/11\/7-tips-to-encourage-speech-and-language-in-a-toddler\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tips to Encourage Speech and Language in a Toddler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I have received quite a few messages with questions pertaining to toddler\u2019s language abilities. While language development is different in every child and should be addressed in a case-by-case scenario, I thought it might be helpful to put together a list of a strategies to support overall language development in a toddler.<\/p>\n<p><b>Be a Model<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Be a good language model by modeling the language you want your child to be using. For example, when your child puts his arms up to you, it generally means he wants to be picked up, right? In this situation think about a word &#8211; <i>up <\/i>&#8211; you could model that you would want your child to say to be picked up. Model that word &#8211; <i>up<\/i> &#8211; and wait a moment before picking him up. Don\u2019t expect your toddler to imitate your model immediately, but over time he should pick up on what\u2019s expected and what you want him to say.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1519 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-980x653.jpg 980w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_5848-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Wait\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As adults we tend to want to fill in a lull in conversation. Or, we tend to ask our child a question and then rush to answer for him. In the future, try waiting a few moments longer than you normally would to allow your child to process the question or conversation.\u00a0 By giving your child time to respond, it reinforces his effort to keep trying to communicate, even if he isn&#8217;t responding in an understandable way quite yet.<\/p>\n<p><b>Expand<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Expand on your child\u2019s current language ability. If your child extends an object and doesn\u2019t have a word for it, model the word for him. If your child extends an object and uses 1-word to label (ball), model back a 2-word phrase (big ball).<\/p>\n<p><b>Use Sounds<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sounds are easier to imitate than words and are generally way more fun to produce during play. If animal and vehicle sounds seem to be difficult for your child to produce, try starting with pure vowels (ahhhhhh, oooooo, ohhhhh, eeeeeee). Once your child becomes more adept at imitating the pure vowels, begin to move on to more silly, animal, and vehicle sounds.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1539 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-510x382.jpg 510w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-1080x810.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-1280x960.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-980x735.jpg 980w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_2562-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><b>Don\u2019t Test<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a Challenge for You: remove the question \u201cwhat\u2019s this?\u201d and the command \u201csay ____\u201d\u00a0 from the conversation with your toddler. Chances are, when putting pressure on your toddler to perform by asking \u201cwhat\u2019s this,\u201d or when giving him the command \u201csay ball\u201d he shuts down and says nothing. Take the pressure off and refer back to the strategies of <b><i>Model<\/i><\/b> and <b><i>Wait.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2425 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-510x382.jpg 510w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-1080x810.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-1280x960.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-980x735.jpg 980w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_8455-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Create Communication Temptations<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Set up your home environment to create moments throughout the day when your child <i>needs <\/i>to communicate with you. As adults, it is easy to anticipate your child\u2019s every need, which in turn shuts down opportunities for your child to communicate with you. Think about setting up the environment so a desired item is just out of reach or placed inside a tightly sealed container and then wait. Your child will probably reach or whine to get what he wants. <b>Model <\/b>a desired word and <b>wait<\/b> before giving the desired item.<\/p>\n<p><b>Say What <i>To Do<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Young children are concrete thinkers. When giving a direction, tell your child what you want them <i>to do<\/i> vs. what <i>not to do<\/i>. For example, if you want your child to stop running in the house, try giving the direction <i>walk <\/i>instead of <i>don\u2019t run. Don\u2019t <\/i>is a high level language concept your child is probably only hearing <i>run<\/i> and continuing on with the exact behavior your are trying to extinguish.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_8399-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1070 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/saynplaycolumbus.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_8399-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"504\" height=\"672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_8399-1.jpg 504w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_8399-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bestsidedesign.org\/snp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_8399-1-480x640.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 504px) 100vw, 504px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Life with a toddler is exhausting, exhilarating, frustrating, and confusing. Hopefully, the above strategies will help ease some of the everyday frustration and confusion and help guide you to become more intentional in your language use with a toddler. As always, please feel free to contact me with any questions or comments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I have received quite a few messages with questions pertaining to toddler\u2019s language abilities. While language development is different in every child and should be addressed in a case-by-case scenario, I thought it might be helpful to put together a list of a strategies to support overall language development in a toddler. 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